Tuesday, 8 March 2011

Reason, Season or Lifetime?


Reason, Season or Lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.    

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.  
In my life people have come for a reason. I value the time they gave me and the advice they offered. Thank you to all of you who came to life for a REASON. :) 

Then people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.   
To the season people. You came for a season. But when the joy of summer left, you left too leaving behind the harsh Autumn. You gave me an opportunity to grow learn and share. Thank you for making laugh and bringing joy into my life. :)

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
For the people who are in my life now and will remain there God Willing. Thank you for being my support when I needed it. Thank you for still being there even when I made the biggest mistake. I pray that it stays that way till the day I leave this earth. :)

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