Being single

Ok so here i am one of the few from my friends circle who is still single and HAPPY. Now u wonder why i write happy in caps... its just to point out that i am happy. Anyways my post today is to all of them out there (except you sars since u don't nag me) that if getting engaged or married or both makes u a match maker then I'd rather be single. Why is it that everyone who finds their life partner start stressing about their single friends... I mean even family gosh one gets engaged so that means the rest do to. Come on tell me, those of you who are now engaged and married, how hard was it to find your ideal match? I bet u went through so much stress unless you are one of the lucky few who married you high school sweetheart. Its not easy in a world where divorce rates are shooting up, where fidelity is sold for a bit of pleasure in the side. yeah i know i seem to be holding out for the stars but surly a girl or guy can be picky. I mean this is someone you are going to spend the rest of your life with. You will have children with them, grow old with them, weather storms, celebrate the good times and grieve during sorrowful times. This is the person who will nurse you when you are ill and vice versa. So tell me why is it so hard for those who have already found their partners to understand how hard it is for us singletons? Dint get me wrong i do want to find the right person its just taking me longer then most so all you people out there who have been badgering me to get married i will when i find the ideal guy and not before that. :)